Diamond Gifting Guide: What to Buy for Every Milestone
Diamonds have long symbolised love, achievement, and timeless elegance. Whether you're celebrating a relationship, personal accomplishment, or family moment, gifting a diamond is a powerful way to mark the occasion.
At Fergus James, we understand the importance of choosing the right piece for the right moment. Our curated guide helps you navigate the world of natural and lab-grown diamonds so you can find the perfect gift for every life milestone.


Why Diamonds Make the Perfect Gift
Diamonds are not only stunning — they are durable, lasting, and emotionally meaningful. As one of nature's most resilient materials, a diamond represents strength, commitment, and endurance — making it an ideal gift to honour a milestone moment. With the growing popularity of lab-grown diamonds, you also have more sustainable and affordable options without compromising on beauty or brilliance.
1. Engagement: The Beginning of Forever
Recommended Gift: Solitaire diamond ring or custom lab-grown engagement ring
The engagement ring is perhaps the most iconic diamond gift. Whether you opt for a classic round-cut solitaire or a unique oval halo design, this is your opportunity to reflect your partner's style and your shared story.
Lab-Grown Tip: A lab-grown diamond engagement ring can offer a larger stone or higher quality at a more accessible price point, making it a smart option for modern couples.
Popular Choices at Fergus James:
- 1.0–2.0 carat round or oval cut
- Platinum or 18K yellow gold settings
- Natural and lab-grown customisation options
2. Wedding Day: A Symbol of Unity
Recommended Gift: Diamond wedding bands, eternity rings, or bridal sets
Your wedding day marks a once-in-a-lifetime union. A diamond wedding band or eternity ring makes a beautiful and enduring gift, often chosen to complement the engagement ring.
Pairing Tip: Choose a band that complements the engagement ring style — same metal type and similar setting height for a seamless stack.
3. First Anniversary: The Paper Anniversary with a Sparkle
Recommended Gift: Diamond pendant or delicate tennis bracelet
While tradition calls the first anniversary the "paper" milestone, more modern gift-givers are choosing to mark it with diamonds. A minimalist pendant or fine tennis bracelet is elegant, wearable, and sentimental — perfect for everyday luxury.
Lab-Grown Option: A lab-grown diamond necklace can offer the same brilliance as a natural diamond with added ethical appeal, especially appreciated by eco-conscious partners.
4. The Birth of a Child: Celebrate New Beginnings
Recommended Gift: Diamond studs, push presents, or stackable rings
Welcoming a child into the world is a deeply emotional milestone. Many choose to gift a "push present" — often a timeless pair of diamond earrings or a ring featuring the child's birthstone flanked by diamonds.
Custom Idea: Create a stackable ring for each child, starting with a diamond and adding birthstones in future years.
5. Graduation: Achievement and Ambition
Recommended Gift: Diamond bracelet, necklace, or signet ring
Marking the end of an educational journey and the beginning of a new chapter, graduation deserves a gift that inspires confidence and celebrates achievement. A sleek diamond bezel necklace or signet ring with a small embedded diamond can serve as a lasting reminder of this transition.
Lab-Grown Advantage: Ideal for younger recipients — more size and sparkle for your budget without compromising on quality.
6. Career Milestone: Promotions, Business Launches, or Retirements
Recommended Gift: Statement diamond ring, cufflinks, or watch accents
Achieving professional success is worthy of recognition. Whether it's a new job, promotion, or retirement, a bold diamond piece reflects both achievement and personal style.
Ideas for Him:
- Diamond-studded cufflinks
- A timepiece with subtle diamond details
Ideas for Her:
- Right-hand diamond ring
- Lab-grown diamond fashion ring in a bold setting
7. 10th Anniversary: A Decade of Devotion
Recommended Gift: Diamond eternity ring or custom diamond jewellery
Traditionally the "tin" anniversary, ten years together deserves something much more significant. An eternity ring with a continuous band of diamonds symbolises lasting love and commitment.
Customise It: Include a mix of lab-grown and natural diamonds for a unique and meaningful piece that tells your story.
8. Just Because: Celebrate the Everyday Moments
Recommended Gift: Everyday diamond jewellery like huggie earrings, initial pendants, or stackable rings
Sometimes the most thoughtful gifts are those given for no specific reason at all. Celebrate daily love, appreciation, or personal growth with a simple yet elegant piece that fits any wardrobe.
Popular Everyday Pieces at Fergus James:
- Small hoop earrings with pavé diamonds
- Diamond-accented initials
- Custom engravings with a single diamond


How to Choose Between Natural and Lab-Grown Diamonds
At Fergus James, we offer both natural and lab-grown diamonds, ensuring you have access to a wide range of options for every style and budget.
Feature | Natural Diamond | Lab-Grown Diamond |
Formation | Created over billions of years in Earth | Grown in labs using advanced technology |
Value | Traditional, resale value may be higher | Budget-friendly, excellent value |
Ethics | Must be certified conflict-free | Typically more sustainable and traceable |
Appearance | Indistinguishable to the naked eye | Identical brilliance and clarity |
Our Advice: Choose natural diamonds for heirloom pieces and lab-grown for everyday or trend-forward designs. Both are beautiful, durable, and real diamonds.
Final Thoughts
Every milestone deserves a lasting memory, and diamonds have the power to mark those moments with beauty and meaning. Whether you're shopping for an engagement, anniversary, birth, or personal triumph, Fergus James offers handcrafted, ethically sourced natural and lab-grown diamond jewellery to suit every occasion.
Need help choosing the perfect diamond gift? Contact us to book a free consultation or explore our collection to find the piece that tells your story.